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Trading up out of your starter home

Getting out of your starter home without owning two houses or none.

The real question is never which house

Everyone starts this conversation by talking about the next house. Bigger yard, another bedroom, a garage that fits actual cars.

That is the fun part and it is not the part that decides whether this goes well. The decision that matters is the order: do you sell first or buy first? Get that wrong and you either own two houses and two payments, or you own none and you are moving twice.

There is no general answer. There is only your answer, and it comes out of your equity, your loan and how much risk you can actually stomach.

Run my sell first vs buy first numbers

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Sell first, buy first, and the honest trade off

Sell first and you know exactly what you have. Your offer on the next house is clean and strong. The cost is that you might be between houses for a stretch, and that means a rental or a very good friend.

Buy first and you never have to move twice, and you shop calmly. The cost is that you are carrying two payments until the first one sells, and if the market moves against you in that window, it is your money that absorbs it.

We run both with your actual numbers before you list anything. Not a rule of thumb. Your equity, your rate, your payment, your cushion.

Where the money usually is

Most move-up sellers we work with have owned long enough that the equity is the largest financial asset they have, and it is sitting entirely in one house. How that house is marketed is not a detail at that point. It is the down payment on the next one.

This is exactly where our approach matters most. A starter home marketed properly in its first week on the market is often the difference between the next house being comfortable and the next house being a stretch.

Two transactions, one plan

The practical failure in move-up moves is that the sale and the purchase get run as two separate projects, often by two different people who are not talking. Contingencies do not line up. Closing dates drift. Somebody ends up in a hotel.

We run them together, on one timeline, with the contingencies written to protect the side that needs protecting.

Frequently Asked Questions

Should I sell first or buy first?

It depends on your equity, your comfort with carrying two payments and how tight the inventory is in the price range you are moving into. We model both with your real numbers before you commit to either. Anyone who answers this without seeing your finances is guessing.

Can I make an offer contingent on my house selling?

You can, and how well it is received depends on the market and how the rest of the offer is constructed. In a competitive situation it is a disadvantage, which is why we would rather solve the sequencing before you are competing.

How long will my current house take to sell?

It depends on the town, the price band and the time of year, and anyone quoting you a number without seeing the house is making it up. What we can tell you is that the first seven to ten days on the market do most of the work, which is where we put the effort.

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